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Do not insist upon the fact that he absolutely ate, move the plate away from him. He will eat everything indeed during the supper.
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- The causes of the bad appetite
- The anorexia is the disease both long and serious, and to avoid it or slow down at the early stage of the development, the parents shall control their kids closely.
- Do not insist upon the fact that he absolutely ate, move the plate away from him. He will eat everything indeed during the supper.
- If the kid actively rejects any dishes, don ’ t force him to eat, and take, so to speak, a time-out. After some time, the baby likely to return to the old preferences.
- In the use of the dolls to form the persistent interest in kid to the meal, as in everything, you should know the measure.
- When the child is sick and cannot explain what hurts him, he begins to cry from the pain, capricious, refuses to eat, sleeps restlessly.
- Sometimes the baby , on the contrary, is capricious because he wants to sleep, but cannot sleep. Pamper him, caress him, make a relaxing massage. Stay with him and try to set the sleep ing to him.
- Do not load the baby with what he is not interested. Try to find out his preferences and choose the appropriate occupation. Give him the right to choose, the right to decide for himself what to do.
- What age do children’s fears arise at and what is the baby afraid?
- The fears, where did they come from?
- You must be able to distinguish between the nightmares and the night terrors, because they have the different causes.
- The night terrors occur in many children, but in healthy ones they occur infrequently. If the fears continue for many nights in a row – this is an excuse to visit a doctor.
- The program for the neutralization of children’s fears
- If the baby does not work, help him. And remember the main fear that torments the child, and use it in the story being composed.
- The reaction on the parental prohibition
- Should you indulge his whims?
- During the moods and the tantrums the behavior of the parents should be based on three principles: try to understand, indicate the limits of the acceptable behavior and show compassion.
- How to distract the child from the whims
- Remember even the best game should not be prolonged, only then it will interest and cheer the child.
- How to respond to the disobedience
- About the physical punishment
- Do not punish the child in a hurry, first try to “cool down”, calm down, analyze the depth of the action, choosing an adequate punishment.
- The punishment is fair and effective
- If the child does not get along with his brother or his sister
- The eldest child in the family
- The position of the average child in the family
- One of the most effective methods of influencing the child is the personal example of the parents. As you will behave, so your children will treat each other.
- The communication with the adults and the contacts with the peers should constantly alternate, because the children are united not only with the same age, but also with the common interests.
- No less effective are psychological trainings that are presented to the baby in the form of the game. In the game, the child is liberated; it is exactly in it he learns the most necessary easily.
- If it is difficult for the child to make the friends
- Do not worry if the child inserts the wrong word that you expected. This can make the game even more interesting and fun, especially if the guys come up with several answers.
- Is it necessary the child to go to the kindergarten
- Why does not the child want to go to the kindergarten.
- The children can bear the dislike to the certain dishes for the kindergarten generally. The children are not able to explain why this has happened.
- The adults, maybe, should talk to the caregiver about the tablemate of the baby. The cause can be in fact that they speak something offended for your child.
Many scientists come to the conclusion that you ought not to force-feed the baby, even the infant. So, if it’s time for the casual feeding, and your offspring does not think to wake up – don’t awaken him. Wait for him to open his eyes and he will demand his portion from you. Otherwise, the baby will eat much less than usual sleepy. As a result, he neither can sleep properly, nor get a quantity of the food enough, so he’ll be capricious, and the whole day you will calm him down.
In other words, you should as quickly as possible to get rid of the feeling that if the baby will not eat all that lies on the plate in front of him in time, he’ll surely die from the dystrophy. This won’t happen because the kid is not as helpless and tender as we think. If he’s really hungry, he will find an opportunity to ask you to eat.
For example, the well-known teachers Nikitins, who had seven children, took the view that by no means the baby can’t be fed by force. One day one of the boys got sick. He hadn’t eaten anything for three days, and his parents did not make any attempts to feed him, only gave the boy some water. As a result, the kid’s organism was able to overcome the disease. The child took the food a little at the first time only on the fourth day of the illness.
As a rule, in the second year of the life, the kid, who used to eat everything that lay on the plate in front of him, becomes very picky. On the one hand, this is due to the fact that the child requires significantly more time in order to feel hungry. On the other hand, the kid begins feeling like a person that is an independent one who has the right to his preferences and the choices. During this period, the baby’s tastes can change almost not every week. Today he eats any dish with pleasure, and tomorrow the child will not pay the attention to it at all.
The task of the parents is to keep calm and restraint in this situation. Of course, you can be irritated with the fact that you’ve prepared this or that dish specially for the baby, spending the money and the time on the dish; and suddenly he didn’t want to eat it, whereas before such the problems did not arise. This means that your baby explores this world and wants to feel the different tastes which are why he rejects the food he knows and requires something new.
Certainly, it is quite difficult to prepare several dishes for one feeding. This, in general, isn’t required, but if you want the babe to eat well, then try to make his diet as diverse as possible.
Many children, turning to the adult food, suddenly begin to give up some milk. Don’t force the kid at all costs to drink the daily rate of this valuable product if he doesn’t want. Otherwise, you will only disgust him with some milk for the rest of the life. Wait some days. If the child still continues to reject some milk, do not insist, and try to replace it something equivalent. The baby can like the products such as the sour milk, cheese and cottage cheese. In the end with your correct behavior, the child will ask for some milk again, and there’ll be no the aversion to this drink. The same applies to other products.
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